Based on the dual perspective of family care needs and family care providers

Third, the family elderly care support policy system: the comprehensive construction of both the supply and demand of family care services

In general, the construction of home care friendly family support policy should be started from three aspects: first, to create a good social environment for family care; The second is to improve the family support policy for the needy; The third is to establish family support policies for family care providers.

(1) Create a good social environment for family elderly care

"The foundation of the world is in the country, and the foundation of the country is at home." The family is the basic cell of society and the first residence for the aged. Home care for the elderly is the common wish of the vast majority of the elderly, and the elderly service provided by the family with "family temperature" such as life care, spiritual comfort, and affection is difficult to replace any other way of providing for the elderly. Therefore, creating a good social environment for family care is an important part of building a home-care friendly family support policy system.

Praise and respect relatives, filial piety and other traditional virtues.  Family and everything, family happiness, respect for the old and love the young, good wife and mother, husband and children, diligent and thrifty, etc., all reflect this concept of the Chinese people." [4] To praise and respect the traditional virtues such as filial piety and filial piety for the elderly, one is to raise the care for the elderly from the moral level to the national policy level, and create a good policy environment for family elderly care. Guide the whole society to positively view the aging society, the elderly and the elderly life, [5] actively carry forward the Chinese traditional virtues and thoughts of gratitude, which are "kindness and filial piety first", "supporting relatives", "respecting relatives" and "sending relatives", and respecting and caring for the elderly; To carry forward the promotion of filial piety for the elderly into the core values of socialist propaganda and education, sublimate it into the social morality of "respecting the elderly" and implement it into professional ethics and personal morality, and build a culture of filial piety for the elderly with national characteristics and characteristics of The Times; We will carry out extensive public education on the national conditions of the aging population, strengthen public education on the preparation for old-age care throughout the life cycle, strengthen cultural education for young people to respect the elderly, love the elderly and help the elderly, and guide people to consciously assume family responsibilities, establish good family customs, and promote harmony between the young and the old.

The second is to carry forward and reform the culture of filial piety, and create a good cultural atmosphere for family pension. On the one hand, the culture of filial piety should be promoted and the family should be encouraged to become the main body of the elderly care, and the culture of filial piety, which was originally the source of the family care for the elderly theory, should be upgraded from a family ethic of "caring for the elderly" to a social ethic of "caring for the elderly", so as to provide cultural support for the supply of socialized elderly care services, promote the coordination of family care for the elderly and socialized elderly care services, and jointly solve the dilemma of home care for the elderly. On the other hand, in combination with the spirit of The Times, the traditional filial piety culture should be creatively consolidated and innovated, the rights and opportunities of the young generation and the old generation in the family should be well coordinated, and the intergenerational relationship should be reasonably adjusted. In the specific handling of intergenerational relations, it is necessary to emphasize that children's "filial piety" and parents' "love" complement each other to achieve proportionate rights and obligations; It emphasizes that children's "filial piety" to their parents should come from love and be fully self-conscious and self-disciplined. It emphasizes on grasping the changes of The Times in the needs of the elderly in modern society, paying attention to keeping the body and mind healthy, and paying attention to letting the elderly obtain spiritual comfort; It emphasizes the balance between the rights and interests of different generations of family members, and focuses on each other at different times to achieve mutual benefit and sharing within the family.